Getting to Know Jacqueline
In my very first show, I invite you to join me down on the lounge and get to know me up close and personally. My creative collaborator, Xavier Waterkeyn, will be interviewing me to get at the heart of...
View ArticleMyth Busting
In the second show of The Tantric Lounge Jacqueline starts busting myths! She’ll start with the two biggest ones that get in the way of fulfilling our sexual potential: (1) That sex is a base activity,...
View ArticleMen Are From Earth, Women Are From Earth
Show three is coming up and down on The Tantric Lounge Jacqueline Hellyer and her co-host Xavier Waterkeyn are well and truly off and running, taking listeners on their way to sexual empowerment! On...
View ArticleVive La Difference!
In their fourth show down on The Tantric Lounge, Jacqueline Hellyer and her co-host Xavier Waterkeyn are continuing to bust myths and ditch beliefs that limit us and hold us back from reaching our...
View ArticleWhy Humans Are So Sexy
We’re on a roll busting myths and giving you real information about sex and sexuality. We’ve shown that a lot of our sexual beliefs are misconceptions, that men and women aren’t that different, and...
View ArticleSecret Men’s Business
This program is all about men! Jacqueline will share her insights from Tantric traditions and modern science and her own considerable experience working with countless men in therapy and coaching...
View ArticleBlack Belt in the Bedroom
What does it take for a man to be a Black Belt in the bedroom? Not hot tips and tricks. It’s actually all about who he is being, not what he is doing. He needs to embody the five ‘C’s: calm, confident,...
View ArticleThe Tantric Lounge Live
I meet a lot of sensual explorers - people on a quest to find meaning in their sexuality, people who know that sexuality and spirituality are linked, that the concept of conscious sexuality is...
View ArticleSecret Women’s Business
This week’s program is all about women! We’ll be talking about what every woman (and her partner!) needs to know about her biology, her psychology and her energy to be able to feel luscious and sexual....
View ArticleGreat Sex? Release the Goddess Within!
Last week we talked about woman - stuff you need to know as a woman to feel good about your womanliness and your sexuality. This week we’re going to look at how you take that empowered sense of female...
View ArticleTherapy With A Twist of Tantra
What does a Sex Therapist do, and how does Tantra fit into contemporary sex therapy? Find out in this program! Xavier quizzes Jacqueline in depth on the kind of cases she has and how she deals with...
View ArticleThe Sex Brain
In this program Jacqueline and Xavier will be talking with Grant Soosalu about the Sex Brain. Grant and his colleague Marvin Oka have developed the concept of mbraining, based on our multiple brains....
View ArticleBeforeplay
Over the past few episodes we’ve been looking at women and looking at men, now we’re going to look at them both together and talk about couples and sex. But there’s no use talking about sex before we...
View ArticleTantric Myth Busting
The Tantric Lounge is back for its second season, sponsored by the fabulous folk at Lelo, the world’s leading designer brand for intimate products. The Tantric Lounge remains a sleaze-free zone,...
View ArticleLiving La Vida Tantrica
We Westerners love to put things in boxes, especially sex sex is something different from life, something ‘other’. So people tend to think that Tantric Sex is replacing the ‘sex’ box with the ‘Tantric...
View ArticleBringing Kids Up Sex Positive
More than ever, children and adolescents need to be well educated about sex. If young people are well informed, if they know that their sexuality is a good and powerful thing, they will use it in a...
View ArticleRiding the Tantric Wave
Tantra is all about developing spiritually, moving towards transcendence, a state of bliss. As you advance in sexual Tantra love-making feels like a wave of bliss. It feels like your surfing through...
View ArticleCathecting the Divine
An element of Tantra is cathecting (or plugging into) the divine in yourself and your partner. In this episode of The Tantric Lounge we’re going to look at the divine feminine and the divine masculine...
View ArticleTantric Development for Men
So much of my work is men is about how they can develop themselves sexually and spiritually. As one young man said to me recently, sex without the spiritually is empty. I love it when men come to me to...
View ArticleThe Magic of Mystique
So much of sex these days is blatant. There’s no mystery, no mystique. What happens when couples share too much? There’s no room for desire, there’s no wanting to move toward, to discover more. Instead...
View ArticleMake Sex Your Hobby
What is a hobby? According to the dictionary it’s “an activity done regularly in one’s leisure time for pleasure.” That sounds like sex to me! We all know that it’s good for couples to have a mutual...
View ArticleTurn Your Whole Body Into An Erogenous Zone
What’s your greatest erogenous zone? Your skin! So any part of your body can be an erogenous zone. We tend to limit sexual attention to only those parts of the body which we believe are ‘erogenous’,...
View ArticleUnleashing The Primitive
Letting go through Tantra and opening up to sexual possibilities can take you to beautiful states of altered consciousness. It can also take you to wild states of primal consciousness - a place where...
View ArticleTantric Dominance and Submission
We’re getting kinky down on the Lounge this week, talking about the Tantric approach to dominance and submission, pleasure and pain and all those delicious delights on the ‘darker’ side… Is this...
View ArticleRetreating with Luscious Women
Would you like to be a fly on the wall at one of Jacqueline’s women’s retreats? Today Jacqueline goes through what happened at a recent retreat, sharing the activities and the insights of the...
View ArticleSexual Etiquette
What is the correct etiquette for sexual interactions? How do you approach an existing or prospective partner? How do you deal with response, positive or negative? How do you conduct the interaction?...
View ArticleThe Way of Surrender
Imagine letting go and simply allowing what will be to be, without fighting or striving, with a sense of ease and flow. Surrendering... There isn’t really a word in the English language that has a...
View ArticleThe Urge to Merge
The urge to merge is a natural desire. We crave bliss and connection and fear isolation. Yet to merge requires letting go, and that requires trust and vulnerability. These qualities are often...
View ArticleThe Anatomy of Sex
The human body is an incredible pleasure machine, the sensations and experiences we can potentially experience are incredible. Until recently though, it wasn’t really an aspect of science that was...
View ArticleThe Future of Sex
What is the future of sex? Join Jacqueline and co-presenter Xavier as they talk with futurist, Ross Dawson. Teledildonics, Virtual Sex, Quasi-holographics, are just a few of the technological...
View ArticleA Mature Woman's Sexual Mission
Our guest on The Tantric Lounge this week has a fascinating story. A good country Catholic wife, mother of seven, Trish Lehman left all that behind In her 50s to pursue her sexual awakening. Moving to...
View ArticleSound Intimacy
A great and often under appreciated aspect of sexuality is that of harmony, and one of our most easily accessed paths to harmony is through sound. In this Tantric Lounge episode sound therapist Lia...
View ArticleSexological Bodywork
Today Jacqueline and Xavier are chatting with two guest Sex Geeks - Deej and Uma, two of Australia’s top somatic sex educators and practitioners. They practice and teach Sexological Bodywork,...
View ArticleSex in the Time of Menopause
Menopause affects 100 percent of women who live long enough to experience it. But what exactly is menopause and how does it affect a woman’s sex life and the sex lives of her partners? In this show...
View ArticleMeet the Seven Goddesses of Sex
On today’s show we’re not interviewing a Sex Geek, we’re talking to Seven Sex Goddesses! Or at least, Jacqueline is introducing us to the concept of the Seven Goddesses of Sex and how accessing their...
View ArticleAll Tied Up in Japanese Bondage
Shibari - the Art of Japanese Bondage has a long history, and has found its way into the kink and alternative art communities of the West. What is it exactly and what is its appeal to modern...
View ArticleFemale Orgasmicness and the New Sexual Revolution
Jacqueline calls it the Third Wave of Sexuality, today’s guest Sex Geek calls it the New Sexual Revolution. Alison Petrie is a Tantric Practitioner, Healer and Workshop Facilitator. Today we talk with...
View ArticleBroadening Your Sexual Repertoire
Broadening your sexual repertoire and opening up to the amazing life-enhancing potential of a fulfilled sexuality requires a strong basis. If we divide our sexuality into physical, mental, emotional...
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